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Each household gets a personal invite. They tap it, fill in their address, RSVP, and meal choice. It all lands in your dashboard. No spreadsheets. No copy-pasting. No follow-up texts.

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Sarah & Michael

Dear Mom & Dad

We would be honored to have you celebrate our special day with us. Please let us know if you can make it!

JUN27
Saturday, June 27, 202612:00 AM
The Grand Estate, Napa Valley

Mailing Address

Where should we mail your formal invitation?

742 Evergreen Terrace

Springfield, IL 62704

Who is Attending?

Mom

Entrée Choice

Dietary Restrictions

Dad

Entrée Choice

Dietary Restrictions

Guest of Mom & DadPlus One

Entrée Choice

Dietary Restrictions

LilyChild

Entrée Choice

Dietary Restrictions

DJ Request

What song will get you on the dance floor?

We can't promise anything, but we'll try our best.

Message to the Couple

Optional, but it would mean the world to us.

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What lands in your dashboard

MomAttending

Meal: Salmon

Dietary: –

DadAttending

Meal: Risotto

⚠️ Severe Peanut allergy
Plus OneAttending

Meal: Filet Mignon

Dietary: –

LilyAttending

Meal: Kid's Chicken

Dietary: –

Address: 742 Evergreen Terrace, Springfield, IL 62704

Song request: Dancing Queen

Message: So excited to celebrate with you.

One household submits. Everything organizes itself.

Sound familiar?

I texted my aunt for her address twice. She replied with a photo of her fridge magnet.

Our spreadsheet has 90 rows and 40 of them are missing an address, a meal choice, or both.

My fiancé made edits to an old copy. We lost a week figuring out which version was right.

Each household gets one link. They fill in their own address, RSVP, and meal choice. You never chase anyone.

How it works

Build your invite once - Toggle questions, upload a cover photo. Three minutes.

Send one link per household - Text, WhatsApp, email, or QR code. No app downloads, no accounts for them.

Everything lands in one place - Addresses, RSVPs, meals, dietary. Exportable to CSV, The Knot, or Zola.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Yes. Upload a CSV from Google Sheets or Excel and the importer maps your columns automatically. You can also grade your spreadsheet first with our free Spreadsheet Grader to spot issues before you import.

The most common method is texting or emailing each guest individually, but this creates a disorganized mess of replies across different apps. With iDoTogether, each household gets a unique invite where guests enter their own mailing address, RSVP, meal choice, and dietary needs. Everything lands in your dashboard automatically.

Digital RSVPs collect more data (addresses, dietary restrictions, meal choices, song requests) in one step. Paper cards only capture attendance and often lack return addresses. Digital also updates in real time and eliminates manual data entry.

Start 6-8 months before your wedding. You'll need addresses for save-the-dates, and starting early gives you time to chase down the inevitable stragglers before your invitation print deadline.

At minimum: mailing address, RSVP status, and meal choice. Ideally also dietary restrictions (this is a liability issue for your caterer), song requests, and a personal message. Each invite collects all of this in one form.

Yes. Everything you see in the preview above is customizable from your dashboard. You can edit the welcome message, upload a cover photo, rename or reorder meal options, toggle address collection on or off, and choose which questions to ask (song requests, dietary restrictions, plus-one names, and more). The visual builder shows a live phone preview as you make changes.

Yes. The free tier supports up to 50 guests with full functionality including invites, RSVP tracking, meal choices, and CSV exports. For larger weddings, it is a one-time $99 payment for unlimited guests. No subscriptions, ever.

Absolutely. This tool opens an instant preview of your invite and lets you share it via text, WhatsApp, or email. Your guests can interact with it and see exactly what the real thing looks like. No account needed for the preview.

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