Let Your Invite Do the Work.

The most common method is texting or emailing each guest individually, but this creates a disorganized mess of replies across different apps. With iDoTogether, each household gets a unique invite where guests enter their own mailing address, RSVP, meal choice, and dietary needs. Everything lands in your dashboard automatically.

Digital RSVPs collect more data (addresses, dietary restrictions, meal choices, song requests) in one step. Paper cards only capture attendance and often lack return addresses. Digital also updates in real time and eliminates manual data entry.

Start 6-8 months before your wedding. You'll need addresses for save-the-dates, and starting early gives you time to chase down the inevitable stragglers before your invitation print deadline.

At minimum: mailing address, RSVP status, and meal choice. Ideally also dietary restrictions (this is a liability issue for your caterer), song requests, and a personal message. Each invite collects all of this in one form.

Yes. Everything you see in the preview above is customizable from your dashboard. You can edit the welcome message, upload a cover photo, rename or reorder meal options, toggle address collection on or off, and choose which questions to ask (song requests, dietary restrictions, plus-one names, and more). The visual builder shows a live phone preview as you make changes.

Yes. The free tier supports up to 50 guests with full functionality including invites, RSVP tracking, meal choices, and CSV exports. For larger weddings, it is a one-time $29 payment for unlimited guests. No subscriptions, ever.

Absolutely. This tool lets you build a preview of your invite with your names and share it via text, WhatsApp, or email. Your guests can interact with it and see exactly what the real thing looks like. No account needed for the preview.