The Free Checklist That Keeps Both Partners on the Same Page
From the moment you get engaged to the week after the wedding. Start checking things off now. Your progress saves automatically. Free, no account required.
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Start on your phone at lunch. Finish on your laptop at home. Your checklist is always exactly where you left it.
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Both partners see the same list the moment anything changes. Split tasks by who owns each area. No more asking who called the caterer, who confirmed the venue, who sent the invites.
Most couples end up with one person managing everything. That person burns out by month six. iDoTogether splits the load from day one.
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Common Questions
Start with three decisions that lock everything else in: your approximate guest count, your budget, and your date range. Once you know roughly how many people and how much you are spending, venue research becomes productive. Most couples book their venue 12 to 18 months out.
Most couples plan over 12 to 18 months, which gives you time to book popular venues and vendors without stress. A 6 to 9 month timeline is completely workable for couples who move quickly and are flexible on dates. Under 6 months is tight but possible with a clear list of priorities.
Book your venue first, then your photographer, then your caterer. These three are the hardest to replace and fill up earliest. Everything else, florists, DJs, hair and makeup, can typically be booked 6 to 9 months out without trouble.
Send save the dates 8 to 10 months before the wedding for a local event, or 12 months out for a destination wedding. This gives guests enough time to arrange travel and request time off work. Formal invitations should follow 6 to 8 weeks before the wedding.
The biggest mistake couples make is letting one person become the hub for every decision. Use a shared checklist where both partners can see status in real time and each owns specific categories. iDoTogether is built exactly for this: both partners get equal access to the same list and see each other's progress the moment anything changes.
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